Written by Mia.
These days, everything seems to have a catchy nickname. People often use common sayings about parenting on social media platforms like TikTok or Instagram. These sayings are used to discuss various parenting styles and personalities. Here are 8 of these common parenting style phrases.
Please note that we are not endorsing any particular style; we are simply calling out their meanings.
HELICOPTER PARENTS
These folks hover close, always ready to swoop in and solve problems. Known for their over-involvement, they closely monitor their kid’s every activity.
Helicopter parenting involves closely watching children and trying to protect them from any possible harm or failure. Some may associate this parenting style with limiting children’s independence.
LAWNMOWER PARENTING
This parent strives to smooth their little one’s path, removing any obstacles they might encounter. They desire to make life as easy and stress-free as possible for their young ones.
The lawnmower parent provides a sense of security and stability, but preventing your kids from facing challenges may inhibit the development of resilience and coping skills. People refer to an intense version of the lawnmower as the snowplow parent.
FREE-RANGE PARENTS
Get ready for independence. Free-range parents believe in giving their kids leeway to explore and learn from their experiences. They trust their children to handle responsibilities and make decisions on their own, fostering independence and self-reliance. Free-rangers encourage little ones to engage with the world around them, further promoting creativity and problem-solving skills.
JELLYFISH PARENTS
Jellyfish parents are characterized by their flexible and lenient approach to parenting. They have very few rules and restrictions and allow their kids to make decisions. This style encourages a relaxed and open environment that supports children to explore their interests and individuality.
These parents foster creativity and self-expression. However, they should provide structure and guidance to teach responsibility and boundaries. Warning kids before changing activities is good. For example, you can tell them they have 20 minutes left to play before it's time to eat.
SILKY PARENTING
Are you the type of parent who relies on technology to entertain your kids? Do you find yourself splurging on the latest gadgets to help with chores around the house? You might be a silky parent.
Silky parenting embraces modern conveniences and technologies to make parenting manageable. They value practicality and efficiency, allowing themselves to focus on enjoying time with their children minus the stress of traditional, time-consuming methods.
CRUNCHY PARENTING
The opposite of silky parenting is the crunchy parent. They prioritize traditional, natural, and organic choices, such as cloth diapers in place of disposable ones and cooking homemade meals instead of ordering takeout. They may grow some of their own food and even homestead. Some may even say a "crunchy mom" is similar to a hippie and may also be called a "granola mom" or "granola parent."
Crunchy parenting involves a strong commitment to environmental sustainability and holistic health. They aim to promote a natural lifestyle and eco-friendly home for their kids.
SCRUNCHY PARENTS
Scrunchy parents combine silky and crunchy parenting styles, balancing natural choices with modern conveniences to find a balance that works for their family. This approach combines the best of both worlds, using organic and sustainable practices where possible while also embracing practical and efficient solutions. Scrunchy parents are flexible and adaptable to ensure they can meet their little one’s needs in a way that aligns with their values and lifestyle.
AUTHORITATIVE PARENTS
Authoritative parenting is a balanced approach that blends rules with warmth and support. They set high expectations but are also responsive to their child’s needs and emotions. It nurtures a culture of consistent discipline, open communication, and mutual respect in the home.
However, don’t confuse the authoritative parent with an authoritarian parenting style. The latter is a one-way approach where the parent defines the rules, and the kid obeys without question.
WHAT'S YOUR PARENTING STYLE?
Every family is different. You might find that you’re a blend of these parenting approaches, leading to a balanced approach to parenting. And that’s okay, too! While these buzzwords help you identify different parenting styles, the best approach is the one that works for you and your children.